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Consistent, dependable relationships are the foundation of children's secure attachment to adults in their family. Stable and predictable relationships are just as essential to children in child care settings. Changing child care providers and environments too often is disruptive for a child. Children should be in the same child care setting with the same adult caregivers for as long as possible in order to build the sense of security and trust that leds to secure attachment. Children in child care need familiar routines to encourage learning and provide a sense of control.
Some parents worry that children who form secure attachments with their regular child care providers will not love their parents as much. This is not true. Each attachment relationship is different, and children are very capable of forming many attachments. Having a secure attachment to a reliable, trusted child care provider strengthens the connections in the brain, and gives children an even stronger foundation for later relationships.